Friday, January 2, 2009

Our New Years Evening




It was fabulous!! The husband and I went out for a nice evening, it was soooo much fun!! I even drank 3 beers and felt tipsy it was great!! We got to listen to some great comedy, laugh all night long, we met a new couple who sat at a table we were placed it. They were ok, nice people. They didn't talk to much, I felt weird, because I never know when to shut up. The comedians we listened to were great!! Gabe thought I was drunk because I was laughing at everything they said, but I was just using it as medication... laughter cures all, haven't you heard!

We got to bring in New York City new years, it was fun!! We did the midnight kiss =). When the show was over, we went home to the kidos and they were ALL up still!!! So we sat on the couch and fell asleep with them.

50 seconds to midnight, we both woke and said "Happy New Years" .... and went back to sleep. hahahhaa!!! It was great!

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Happy Birthday Ruben Sr.




"Family faces are like magic mirrors. Looking at people who belong to us, we see the past, present, and future"
Author: Gail Lumet Buckley


Count your life by smiles, not tears. Count your age by friends, not years

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

What 2008 was all about

What was your status by Valentine's Day?
Married, Happily


Did you have to go to the hospital?
Yes, I was ill from my pregnancy with Miranda



Did you have any encounters with the police?
This year, thank god no! (I don't think)


Where did you go on vacation?
We went to visit my mom in Texas in March






What did you purchase that was over $500
My PG&E bill LOL !!!!




Did you know anybody who got married?
Spencer and Heidi ... oh wait, it's not legal ...
umm I don't this so!


Did you know anybody who passed away?
yes, sadly I knew three people who passed this year =(





What sporting events did you attend?
Football!! Every Sunday!



What concerts/shows did you go to?
I'm going to a show tomorrow night, but I don't think I've been to one any other time.



Where do you live now?
North Bay!



Describe your birthday?
Pregnant very pregnant lol I got a coach purse from my husband and my close girlfriends came over for pizza and cake!!



What has/have been your favorite moment(s)?
Taking a long ass drive to Texas to see my mom, the car ride was so fun omg!






Any new additions to your family?
Yes!! Miranda Ellie, we call her MIMI








What was your best month?
I'd have to say the holiday season is my favorite, I love having all our family around.



Made new friends?
I always make new friends I love my fellow Sassy mamas!



Favorite Night[s] out?
Camping, I love to camp! I love spending the time outdoors with my familY!



Any regrets?
Yes, I wish I would have spent more time with Sr and grandma



What do you want to change in 2009?
My health and finance



Overall, how would you rate this year?
Umm about an 8, when we buy our own home, that year will be a 10! Having our wedding is a 9 lol We did buy a van this year! (well the end of 07)





Have any life changes in 2008?
Of course! We are all still living, healthy, happy, we had a new baby and are having a grandchild in 09, I will be another auntie again in 09' and became one in 08'



Change your hairstyle?
Yes, I'm growing it longer and part it somewhere in the front lol



Get a new job?
Yes, being a SAHM to another child.



How old did you turn this year?
30 !!



Do you have a New Year's resolution?
Yes, to be healthier and have better finances



Did anything embarrassing?
Not really that I can remember

Get married or divorced?
Getting remarried in church under god



Be honest - did you watch American Idol?
NOT ONE TIME!



Start a new hobby?
I had to many hobbies in 08






Been snowboarding?
Nope



Are you happy to see 2008 go?
Yes! I can't wait to see what 09' has in store for us!

Here is what Uncle Jay has to say!

Ending 2008

Wow, I think I just realized that tomorrow is New Years Eve. So much as happened in 2008 I can't wait for this year to be over and start fresh. So let's see what's been going on.


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Starting with the gloomy news. My father in law Ruben passed in June. My grandma Ofelia left us this month, in December. Gabe's uncle Ernie passed away around April-May. We've had some other losses, but I don't think it would be appropriate to put in here. (They might not approve). All of these losses have touched our family deeply.

Ernie lived in Guam for many many years... at least for all of the years that I have been with Gabe. He was down at Del's for 6 months right before passing away. He had a great personality, one that was dry and you'd have to be quick on your feet to catch what he meant. That was the best thing about him.

My grandma Ofelia, she was old. She has lived a long life with her many children and grandchildren. I think she was ready to be in heaven with grandpa and I am glad she is no longer suffering. She had altimerz for so many years.

Then my father in law Ruben. This is a hard one, he was such a great man who touched so many hearts. I am teary just thinking of him. I believe he is with us all the time. I go to his house and smell his scent, and just think of what he would have been doing had he been here with us still. Then I tell myself, he is here with us, his spirit is strong and his soul is living on. We think he knew he was going to pass. He told his son Ruben he was tired. He had lived a long very long life of many faces. He had a strong marriage with Del and a great bond with his grandchildren.

I remember every Christmas and New Years and his birthday, one of his grandson's would call every single year. I thought that spoke so many words for the type of man he was. My son Raymond and Ruben had a secret handshake... it was a wiggle of the nose and wiggle of the fingers ... he is deeply missed.

So that is our celebration of life. We celebrate the life they led and what they meant to us as they passed.


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The Good news of 2008.

Miranda Ellie was born!! Whoo Hooo!!! Exciting news! She was born 8/7 at 9pm in SR.
Mia Bella turned two this year!!! She potty trained right after as well!! By 24 months she was wearing big girl chonies!

Isabel did cheer this year, she did many positions. Side base and front base. I think she had a great year, it just ended a little sour. She quit because something happened that was totally uncalled for and biased of her coach. Isabel had hurt feelings and didn't think that her coach was a fair person. So we moved on and next year I am looking to coach with our friend Sandra, she is an awesome person!

As far as school goes, Isabel rocks it! Her teachers are talking about honor core classes in Junior High and High School, that is way pretty exciting!! I don't know where she gets her brains from, but she most certainly looks like her mama!

Isabel is also in her first year of catechism. She has this year and next year and she will make her first holy communion. It's a very exciting time for her and all of us.

Raymond played football this year. We did take him out half the season because his shoulder kept popping out of place. Come to find out, his coach gave him pads that were to big on him, so he didn't even have correct guard wear. Piss me off! That is my son, I don't want to see him injured. Raymond also has been doing a youth group at our church. He is broadening his horizons. Meeting new people, learning about God and church. I think half the class is High School students.

Raymond is also in a Catechist class this year. He will be making his communion May 2/3rd of 09. I am excited!! His godparents should be Del and Nick again, but we will see how that goes. So for school, well, he is average. His grades are higher when he is not in football but during the season. His grades drop when he's out of season or during season and playing... if that makes sense. We will see how this upcoming year goes. He will be in High School!! Yes can you believe !! Already!!

So for Gabe and I. Well, I had Miranda Ellie in August, that was a blessed moment. Gabe is still working for the company he had been at. He is now traveling everywhere. From North to South, East and West bay. Makes me sick how much he has to travel. But I suppose a job is a job and we are grateful he has one.

I am still a stay at home mom with all my kidos! I love being home, sometimes it can be trying and stressful. But I know that if I don't soak it up, I will never ever get these moments back.

I am a Catechist teacher this year. I teach Raymond's class. That is nice!! I get to study with him and his peers. Gabe and I are also on our journey with RCIA. We are receiving our full rites into the catholic church. That is special for us. It really started because we wanted to get married in church, but it ended up being a meaningful road since we had a few great losses in our life.

Let's see what else do we have going on... we are preparing for our wedding in 2009.
We got to see my grandma and my mom in March 08, we drove to Texas, that was an experience in itself! I turned 30 this year too! I was pregnant with Miranda, but I got a new Coach purse from Gabe, that was AWESOME!


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ok, I think I have rambled on far too long LOL ... so the excellent news of the year

Shelia and Nick are expecting their second son! She is due Jan 09
Elizabeth and Eric are expecting their first child, she is due in July 09.
Andrea and Anthony had their third child in October 08
My brother Ernest and his wife had their second child, Juanita in July 08
My cousin Marta and Fred are expecting their second child in July 09 (I think that month)
My friend Mae and her husband are expecting their second baby in July
My friend Caroline is expecting her second baby!! She is due in July
My friend Missy is pregnant too, she is expecting in July
My 2nd cousin Heather just had a baby girl, her mom my cousin Stella is a grandma Officially the first grandma of the cousins

Monday, December 29, 2008

Christmas 2008

Ahhh I love the holidays. This year is a little bitter sweet however. While we had an excellent holiday, as you have heard, my grandma passed away of old age. Otherwise, Christmas was nice. I spent time with my children and their loved ones. Spent time with my brother and his family. Spent some time with my extended family, cousins, aunts and uncles. It was very nice. As many of you know, I don't go around my family much because of differences in our opinions, or rather just the way I was raised. But this Christmas was VERY nice. I got to spend my time with everyone I care about. Here are a few photos to show what a great time we had this season.































In memory of my grandma

Ofelia Silva Valdez



VALDEZ Ofelia Silva Valdez, age 85 went to be with our Lord, on Friday, December 27, 2008. She was born on October 17, 1923 to Hermeresildo and Sofia Silva in Laredo, Texas. She will be dearly missed by her family and friends. Ofelia is preceded in death by her husband of 50 years, Silvestre Valdez; one son, Gilberto Valdez and five sisters. She leaves behind her family to cherish her memories, son, Eduardo Valdez; daughters: Sofia Feliciano, Janie Garcia ( RG), Blanca Federico (Art) of San Jose, CA., Irma Acosta (Fred), Ofelia Koontz (Rick) of San Jose, CA., Gloria Acosta (Jose) of San Jose, CA., Veronica Garcia; forty grandchildren; thirty eight great great grand children; one great great great grandchild; Aunt Gloria Silva of Corpus and numerous nieces and nephews. Visitation will be held Tuesday, December 30, 2008 from 3:00 p.m. till 9:00 p.m., at Memory Gardens Funeral Home with a Holy Rosary to be recited at 7:00 p.m. the same evening. Funeral Services will be celebrated on Wednesday, December 31, 2008 at 1:00 p.m., at Memory Gardens Funeral Chapel with interment to follow at Memory Gardens Cemetery.

Friday, December 12, 2008

Our new addition

We got word that Elizabeth and Eric are expecting their first child! We are going to be grandparents again! She is due in July. I will be throwing her baby shower, I am sooo excited!! They will be great parents I can feel it. Plus they have so much support from all of us! This will be our second grand child.